Gaslighting Blog Posts

My Answer to Richard and Tracy’s Narcissistic E-mail (“Now I’m Being Stalked” Part 2, May 27, 2012)

This post includes an e-mail Richard and Tracy sent me in May 2012, which proves my belief that they are sociopaths.  In it you will see every sociopathic trait–including empty threats and false accusations–and maybe recognize e-mails yo...
by Nyssa's Hobbit Hole on Sep 28, 2014

Richard and Tracy are stalking me online and at church (“Now I’m Being Stalked” Part 1, May 27, 2012)

This post includes an e-mail Richard and Tracy sent me in May 2012, which proves my belief that they are sociopaths.  In it you will see every sociopathic trait–including empty threats and false accusations–and maybe recognize e-mails yo...
by Nyssa's Hobbit Hole on Sep 27, 2014

Running my abusers’ e-mail through the narc decoder

Back in May 2012, my abusers, Richard and Tracy, discovered this blog, then threatened and began to stalk me.  You can read their e-mail here. Especially note that whichever of them wrote the e-mail (it “sounded” like Tracy’s ̶...
by Nyssa's Hobbit Hole on Sep 14, 2014

And one more lie from Wormtongue falls crashing to the ground (gaslighting)

I posted this on Facebook the other day.  I post it here as an example of how abusers gaslight you–but that you must not believe it: Just had a Writer’s Club meeting on journaling/diaries. Also mentioned was the treasure trove of a decea...
by Nyssa's Hobbit Hole on May 29, 2014

Phil Spreads Lies About Me–December 1994, Part 2

This probably happened between December 5 and 12, though not the Friday before December 12: My choir friends went to a church to practice for their upcoming tour.  They would perform Handel’s Messiah in churches, including the Hallelujah choru...
by Nyssa's Hobbit Hole on May 29, 2014

Richard’s lack of action made him a passive abuser–Tracy’s Reign of Terror: True Story of Narcissism, Bullying, Domestic Violence and Child Abuse, Part 98

  Tracy’s Reign of Terror: True Story of Narcissism, Bullying, Domestic Violence and Child Abuse   Part 98: Richard’s lack of action made him a passive abuser I thought that Tracy was the abuser, and Richard the long-suffering v...
by Nyssa's Hobbit Hole on Apr 30, 2014

Realizing how Richard manipulated me into doing things I shouldn’t–Tracy’s Reign of Terror: True Story of Narcissism, Bullying, Domestic Violence and Child Abuse, Part 95

  Tracy’s Reign of Terror: True Story of Narcissism, Bullying, Domestic Violence and Child Abuse Part 95: Realizing how Richard manipulated me into doing things I shouldn’t This video on the differences between NPD (narcissism) and B...
by Nyssa's Hobbit Hole on Apr 28, 2014

Realizing how my stalker Richard manipulated me into doing things I shouldn’t–Tracy’s Reign of Terror: True Story of Stalkers, Narcissism, Bullying, Domestic Violence and Child Abuse, Part 95

  Tracy’s Reign of Terror: True Story of Narcissism, Bullying, Domestic Violence and Child Abuse Part 95: Realizing how Richard manipulated me into doing things I shouldn’t This video on the differences between NPD (narcissism) and B...
by Nyssa's Hobbit Hole on Apr 28, 2014

Post-friendship: pondering Richard’s narcissism–Tracy’s Reign of Terror: True Story of Narcissism, Bullying, Domestic Violence and Child Abuse, Part 94

Tracy’s Reign of Terror: True Story of Narcissism, Bullying, Domestic Violence and Child Abuse   Part 94: Post-friendship: pondering Richard’s narcissism [Written probably in the first part of 2011.] They Believe What?–The NonV...
by Nyssa's Hobbit Hole on Apr 27, 2014

Describing Richard’s narcissism–Tracy’s Reign of Terror: True Story of Narcissism, Bullying, Domestic Violence and Child Abuse, Part 94

Tracy’s Reign of Terror: True Story of Narcissism, Bullying, Domestic Violence and Child Abuse   Part 94: Describing Richard’s narcissism [Written probably in the first part of 2011.] They Believe What?–The NonVerbal Cues Argum...
by Nyssa's Hobbit Hole on Apr 27, 2014

Written 2011: Grief that my abusers kept coming to my church but not apologizing to me–Tracy’s Reign of Terror: True Story of Narcissism, Bullying, Domestic Violence and Child Abuse, Part 87

(To my stalkers: You haven’t read part 85 yet.) Tracy’s Reign of Terror: True Story of Narcissism, Bullying, Domestic Violence and Child Abuse   Part 87: Written 2011: Grief that my abusers kept coming to my church but not apologizin...
by Nyssa's Hobbit Hole on Apr 24, 2014

Written 2010/2011: I see Tracy hanging out of the window of their minivan, like a crazy woman–Tracy’s Reign of Terror: True Story of Narcissism, Bullying, Domestic Violence and Child Abuse, Part 86

  Tracy’s Reign of Terror: True Story of Narcissism, Bullying, Domestic Violence and Child Abuse   Part 86: Written 2010/2011: I see Tracy hanging out of the window of their minivan, like a crazy woman Tracy did not accept responsibil...
by Nyssa's Hobbit Hole on Apr 23, 2014

Written 2010/2011: Grief over being abused–and the abuser getting away with it–Tracy’s Reign of Terror: True Story of Narcissism, Bullying, Domestic Violence and Child Abuse, Part 85

Tracy’s Reign of Terror: True Story of Narcissism, Bullying, Domestic Violence and Child Abuse Part 85: Written 2010/2011: Grief over being abused–and the abuser getting away with it I believe Tracy’s husband should have taken swift...
by Nyssa's Hobbit Hole on Apr 23, 2014

Written 2010: Grief over being falsely accused–Tracy’s Reign of Terror: True Story of Narcissism, Bullying, Domestic Violence and Child Abuse, Part 84

Tracy’s Reign of Terror: True Story of Narcissism, Bullying, Domestic Violence and Child Abuse Part 84: Written 2010: Grief over being falsely accused Losing friends can be particularly difficult for introverts because we don’t surround o...
by Nyssa's Hobbit Hole on Apr 21, 2014

Tracy tried to force me to submit to her abuse–Tracy’s Reign of Terror: True Story of Narcissism, Bullying, Domestic Violence and Child Abuse, Part 82

Tracy’s Reign of Terror: True Story of Narcissism, Bullying, Domestic Violence and Child Abuse Part 82: Tracy tried to force me to submit to her abuse From What Makes Your Control Freak Wife or Girlfriend Tick: Schumacher cites the rapid phases...
by Nyssa's Hobbit Hole on Apr 17, 2014

Tracy blamed others for her abuse–Tracy’s Reign of Terror: True Story of Narcissism, Bullying, Domestic Violence and Child Abuse, Part 81

Tracy’s Reign of Terror: True Story of Narcissism, Bullying, Domestic Violence and Child Abuse Part 81: Tracy blamed others for her abuse Perhaps one of the most disturbing moments you will have in dealing with a personality-disordered person i...
by Nyssa's Hobbit Hole on Apr 16, 2014

I refuse to give in to Tracy’s emotional blackmail–Tracy’s Reign of Terror: True Story of Narcissism, Bullying, Domestic Violence and Child Abuse, Part 80

Tracy’s Reign of Terror: True Story of Narcissism, Bullying, Domestic Violence and Child Abuse Part 80: I refuse to give in to Tracy’s emotional blackmail It had to be Tracy’s way or no way.  She tried to force me to allow her to s...
by Nyssa's Hobbit Hole on Apr 15, 2014

I suggest a six-month break–Tracy’s Reign of Terror: True Story of Narcissism, Bullying, Domestic Violence and Child Abuse, Part 79

Tracy’s Reign of Terror: True Story of Narcissism, Bullying, Domestic Violence and Child Abuse Part 79: I suggest a six-month break Now, again Tracy tried to manipulate, control and emotionally blackmail me by insisting on a “conference,&...
by Nyssa's Hobbit Hole on Apr 14, 2014

How Tracy’s e-mails displayed narcissism–Tracy’s Reign of Terror: True Story of Narcissism, Bullying, Domestic Violence and Child Abuse, Part 78

Tracy’s Reign of Terror: True Story of Narcissism, Bullying, Domestic Violence and Child Abuse Part 78: How Tracy’s e-mails displayed narcissism Secondary Arguments. If you decide to withhold raising the white flag, you will find your bat...
by Nyssa's Hobbit Hole on Apr 13, 2014

The monster comes back out: Tracy punishes me for long-dead issues–Tracy’s Reign of Terror: True Story of Narcissism, Bullying, Domestic Violence and Child Abuse, Part 77

Tracy’s Reign of Terror: True Story of Narcissism, Bullying, Domestic Violence and Child Abuse Part 77: The monster comes back out: Tracy punishes me for long-dead issues Before we were to call, I wanted him to read the e-mail and respond.  So...
by Nyssa's Hobbit Hole on Apr 12, 2014
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